Tuesday, 28 October 2014

Having a bad day?

Have you had a day recently like I had yesterday where nothing I did worked out for me the way I wanted it too? I had problems with everything I tried to do and it got more and more frustrating.

Why does this happen? When you have something show up that's unwanted it is very easy to go into the wrongness of that, of you, to judge it and make it significant. As our point of view and what we are making significant creates our reality then when we do this we start to create more of what we do not want which is frustrating and hard to get out of as it just seems to snowball. And of course in that place we are then not able to see anything else that's going on that may actually be working out.

So if you have a bad day like I had yesterday try asking yourself a question such as "what else is going on that is working for me that I am not seeing right now?" …. and it will actually show you something different that will help to change things for you.

Take a look at this video that explains more here.

Thursday, 2 October 2014

Allowance - 'What is right about this I'm not getting?'

I have had one of those really frustrating weeks where everything just seems to be hard work, rather slow and a little painful at times! A week where I could easily have slipped into the wrongness of me or where I could have become a little needy of validation and support and where quite honestly it would have been bloody marvellous to have had a few people buying into all my 'woe for me' stuff!! You know what I mean?

But …. I have been trying to work on allowance and have continuously been asking myself 'what is right about this I'm not getting?' rather than going into all that yucky stuff. And just by asking that one simple question has lightened everything up for me as it came up over this week and has made it all a whole load easier.

~ Allowance is where everything is just an interesting point of view and where nothing is judged. It is where you are willing to receive everyone and everything as it is without judging it as good, bad, right or wrong. Can you imagine how much ease you could create by being in allowance of everyone or everything? And can you imagine the infinite possibilities that can be created when you have people that come together that are in total allowance of each other?