Sunday, 15 February 2015

Commit to your life!

If you are always choosing to do somethings with the idea that if it doesn't work out you can always leave then you are living life & your relationships with 'your back door open'. How much of that is really working out for you?

What if you were to do something different and instead choose everything you do with total commitment. What do you think would change if you were to be truly committed to your life? You would have more ease, joy, magic, awareness, possibilities ...... and you would notice that everything and everyone would choose commitment to you too. You would be able to create your life & your relationships beyond what you thought was possible.

Saturday, 14 February 2015


Most people are doing relationship whether they believe they are single or not because they will have some sort of conclusion about their relationship status ….. 'I'm in relationship, I'm not in relationship, I want to be in relationship or I don't want to be in relationship'. When you have any point of view like this then you always have to be judging what you are willing to give and receive from everyone around you in order to validate your conclusion and position and so you are still doing relationship even if you don't want to be in a relationship!! Whenever you do relationship whether you are in a relationship or not you can potentially get hurt, be rejected, be abandoned plus the whole roller coaster ride of emotions ….. because it's about your concluded 'position' in relationship with or without someone else and a 'position' is a judgement and a limitation and is always vulnerable as it has to rely of something or someone else to keep it in place.

What if you could be a 'space' that isn't in relationship with anyone else …. a space where you can simply show up as all of you and with no point of view about what your relationship status is so that you don't ever have to judge and defend your position for or against anyone else. Because when you function in this way relationship and all the crap that comes with relationships whether you are single or not seises to be significant or even exist and now you can be free to just 'BE' space …. you can be in total allowance of whatever shows up without a fear of rejection, getting hurt etc and everyone then simply becomes a possibility that you can either choose to enjoy, nurture and contribute too or not.

Friday, 23 January 2015

Committing To Your Living

I am wondering why people are not really choosing; why they are not choosing what they would really like to create? I personally know some amazing people who know what they want and they simply commit to doing whatever they need to do to have that show up for them … and it does …. with ease and joy! When they make a commitment they give it everything they've got, whatever it takes, 200+% and they don't choose it with a way out either …. because they know that this is what it takes to choose and create. And some of these amazing people are doing whatever it takes to show you and the rest of the world that it really is that easy to have anything.

So, all you others who really want to change something or to have something more show up .. but but but!! … are you now willing to listen in and step up?
Are you really truly willing to choose it, to do whatever it takes to step into it, to create it and to have it?
And are you ready to truly commit to having more of you, for you and would you be willing to let go of everything that stops that from showing up including all the judgments, the fear, the mistrusts, all the limitations, the what ifs, the buts and that back door!

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Wednesday, 24 December 2014

What you resist, persists!

Have you heard the saying 'What you resist, persists'? This has been coming up a lot for me recently with the people I have been talking too and coaching but also in my own situation.

I am aware that resistance is the unwillingness to be and receive everything that is required. Whatever you do to 'resist' whether it be cutting yourself off from someone, running away from something, detaching, creating walls to hide behind, ignoring or refusing to look at or acknowledge something or someone ……. whatever it may be is all resistance and all of it creates SEPARATION from you & from who you truly be and separation never feels good… . And it will keep showing up and persisting in your reality because when you resist anything you are making what you are resisting more significant than you and significant enough for you to react too.

So what can you do instead? Well, you could just look the situation and the people involved head on with no walls and barriers and just be with it all in total allowance, with no judgement of you or them, in total acceptance and with no point of view and keep asking yourself a question such as 'what energy space and consciousness can I be to have total ease with all of this' and then see what space this creates for you as it lightens up ….. and if you still require something else to do then you could always just send out loads of yummy lovely healing energy until it all just disappears, is no longer significant or it changes into something you no longer need to resist!


Sunday, 14 December 2014

How much fun are you creating?

How much fun are you having?

How many people do you know are unhappy, miserable, frustrated and negative about themselves & their lives because they are just 'not having fun'? Maybe this could be you.
Fun is not something that just happens sometimes and for some people. It is a choice! It is what you chose to do and enjoy and by choosing to have more of it for YOU and with everything you do will create so much more ease and joy in every area of your life.
So how much fun will you choose to have today?

Sunday, 2 November 2014

Creating magic.

Who can I be and what can I do that will create magic for me today?

When you acknowledge that you have the capacity to create anything then magic will start showing up. When you judge something as not possible or you judge how and where something shows up you create all sorts of limitations around what else is possible and magic no longer happens. Magic happens when you lower your limitations and judgements and then those things before that you didn't think were possible now 'just happen'. You are magic and you can be, do, have and create anything and everything!

Take a look at the this video.

Universe, show me something beautiful today.

I had to pop out into my garden earlier this wet and dingy morning & rather than rushing back in to stay dry and warm I stopped for just a few minutes when I noticed how incredibly beautiful everything is. All the leaves glistening with a wet film, the rain drops gently sliding off their resting places, the stillness, the autuminal colours of the various greens to browns, the hundreds of wispy cobwebs covering some of the bushes, the mistiness in the morning air …… it truly was so magical.

There really is beauty in everything and even in every situation and if you ask and choose to look at something differently then you will see it from a different perspective. Have a look at this video from Dr Dain Heer - Tour of Consciousness series - Try a different perspective

Try asking yourself this question and see what shows up ….
"Universe show me something beautiful today and what other perspective can I look from?"